Mike Szymanski was born on September 1, 1960 in Baltimore, Maryland. As part of a military family, he moved around a lot, living in Hawaii, Germany, New York, and Dallas. His upbringing was turbulent, with both of his parents battling alcoholism. Mike’s exploration of his sexuality began early, and he knew from a young age he was attracted to multiple genders. Around age sixteen, he came out as bisexual to his mother in a New Orleans strip club.
In 1979, Mike started studying at the University of Florida, majoring in journalism, where he won a National Hearst Award for an article he wrote about the murder of bisexual professor Dr. Howard Appledorf. Although he was dating both men and women, he came out as gay during his time at university. Graduating in 1982, he then embarked on a remarkable 25-year career in journalism, covering crime for prestigious publications like the Atlanta Constitution, Miami Herald, and LA Daily News, while also contributing to Entertainment Weekly, Los Angeles Times, and US Magazine.
During the 1980s, Mike became a leading authority of the gay adult industry under his nom de porn Mickey Skee. He helped to found the GayVN Awards and Chicago’s famous Grabby Awards (formally the Adult Erotic Gay Video Awards), which have raised millions for AIDS charities. To date, he has visited over 100 porn sets and written over a dozen books about the industry.
In 1991, Mike had a second ‘coming out’ in a cover story of Genre magazine when he publicly identified as bisexual. The success of this brought him an iconic Hollywood Hills home, fondly known as “the house that bisexuality built,” as well as appearances on over fifty talk shows, including Ricki Lake and The Phil Donahue Show. The same year, he attended The March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay, and Bi Equal Rights and Liberation with his mother, also covering it as a journalist. This inspired his career as an advocate for bisexuality recognition and awareness. Mike helped start the co-gender Bi Rap meetings at the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center and was instrumental in convincing the influential LGBTQ advocacy non-profit GLAAD to include bisexuality in their agendas. He was involved in the now-defunct BiNet USA, previously the oldest national bisexuality organization in the US. In 2000, after a spate of health issues, Mike received a diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis.
In 2007, Mike co-wrote The Bisexual’s Guide to the Universe with Nicole Kristal, winning the Lambda Award for the first-ever Bisexual Books category. In 2013, he was honored by the City of Los Angeles for his work as Founding Editor of local news site Patch. To date, Mike has won over a dozen local and national awards for his extensive journalism based around bisexuality and his love of Dachshunds. In 2021, with his MS diagnosis under control, Mike hosted his 61st birthday party at his recently-purchased burial plot at Hollywood Forever Cemetery, where his headstone is a stone bench decorated with bronze dachshund statues.
Today, still residing in his Hollywood Hills home, Mike remains actively engaged in journalism and advocacy. He currently serves as the Gay and Bi editor of Adult Video News and participates in the Los Angeles Bi+ Task force.