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Criss Smith was born on May 12, 1960 in Kingston, Jamaica. His father worked in business and his mother was a stay at home mom, until, when he was 4, his mother suddenly immigrated to the UK because she wanted a different life for herself. His dad sent him to live on his grandma’s farm. Though Criss was assigned female at birth, his grandma encouraged him to do traditionally boys’ chores like hunting. When his father passed away in 1966, Criss lived on other relatives’ farms until he moved to Brooklyn to join his mother at age 10.
In New York, his mother enforced a strict schedule of school, church, and chores, requiring him to present and dress femininely, which made him incredibly uncomfortable. By high school, Criss had realized he was more attracted to women than men. He went on to attend Skidmore College where he studied business. In college, he played sports year-round, met close friends in the International Student Union, and explored his sexuality and attraction towards both men and women.
Determined to merge his goals of upward economic mobility from his working-class background with his love for math, he started working on Wall Street right out of college. On Wall Street, at the time presenting as a Black lesbian woman, Criss experienced rampant sexism, racism, and homophobia. He always worked twice as hard, staying overtime and taking extra lessons to excel and continue rising in leadership despite the odds.
In the 1990s, Criss got into his first serious lesbian relationship. When he introduced his girlfriend to his family, though his sister was supportive, his mother stopped speaking to him for a year. Meanwhile, he got more involved with queer events at work. When he moved to JP Morgan Chase, he organized internal corporate pride functions and collaborated with other companies to host joint philanthropic events to support communities such as SAGE, a nonprofit dedicated to providing affordable housing for LGBTQ+ elders and all-inclusive LGBTQ+ social events.
In mid adulthood, Criss finally came to terms with his identity as a bisexual trans man, started taking testosterone, and changed his name. He pivoted to consulting and went on to act in TV shows and commercials. He also played a key role in establishing Elderflower, a groundbreaking health program designed for aging LGBTQ+ patients. Criss gained recognition for his advocacy as the keynote speaker at the 2023 SAGE Annual Awards Gala, and was also honored at the Callen-Lorde Annual Awards Gala in 2024. His perspectives on transgender issues, particularly regarding older adults, have been featured in media outlets including Crain’s New York, NY Public Radio, NPR, the Washington Post, NBC Out, The Outwords Archive, The 19th, ABC News, the Los Angeles Times, and the Christian Science Monitor.
Today, Criss remains deeply committed to community service. He actively volunteers with the Callen-Lorde Community Health Center, serving on the Community Advisory Board (CAB). Most recently, he started substitute teaching high school students, loving the opportunity to give back directly to the community.

